psycholust:

1) When he/she messages you and instead of grabbing for your phone and replying immediately like you always did, you just coolly shrug it off and do something more worthwhile than replying.

2) You see him again and your heart doesn’t pound like it’s about to break out of your chest. Instead, you survey him and while you still have fleeting thoughts of “what if” they’re just fleeting and you stop dwelling.

3) You stop sussing for stories about him from third party sources. You don’t bother to hear anything about what he’s up to or who he’s seeing.

4) You hear he’s seeing someone new and you just hope one day he’ll find the happiness he’s looking for.

5) You don’t have to skip songs in your ipod anymore because they don’t cause a painful jolt whenever you hear something that reminds you of him.

6) You stop comparing other guys to him. Just because he could make you laugh, doesn’t mean other guys won’t!

7) You re-evaluate your priorities in life. While almost everything used to revolve around him, you start thinking about yourself more.

8) You can look back at what happened and take it as a lesson learned instead of breaking out in sniffles. One day, you will even smile and laugh at yourself for the silly things you did and said.